Oh Patootie, I'm exhausted just reading about all the project you have for the next few weeks! But in spite of all the delay and frustration at times, it must be just lovely to feel your new home coming together, as room by room you make it the way you want it. I never saw your old house, of course (nor this one either, come to that!) but I have a very strong sense that your new house is much more comfortable and better located, so it's worth taking the time and money to make it really perfect.
The new radiators sound stellar. It's horrible being too cold, but it's almost as bad being too hot, especially when it's hard to get air through. So a big step forward.
Don't be too hard on yourself about the weight gain. Everyone gains weight at this season: it's partly because we tend to be less active when it's dark and cold, and we mostly eat more to stay warm, but apparently it's also something hormonal. We don't actually hibernate any more, but the body sort of thinks we might. Or something! Anyway, speaking as someone who's more or less constantly slimming, if you can keep the scales under control it's always good, but not at the expense of enjoying some of the comforts and goodies of the season!
As to which: I would be pretty sure that if people invite you for dinner or to stay, they would really like it if you did! So don't do yourself down, and if it appeals, go! But I also understand the sheer rotten luxury of doing just exactly what you fancy on the day: getting up when you want, eating what you want, when you want, watching what you like on telly (or not), having a little snooze when it appeals to you..... So choose to spend Christmas the way you want to, because you want to, not out of any misapprehension that other people don't really want you, because I'm quite sure they do!!
If you were closer, we'd hoik you over here like a shot. We have a single friend who has come to join us for Christmas Day for the last four or five years, and it wouldn't be the same without her. We would really miss her. So think for a minute before you say no to your friends!
Yes, Mr C has been very good, and is continuing to be. He really still has to, because the graft is doing well, but it remains quite fragile for several weeks yet, so most of the time he has his foot up on the sofa. He's actually going nuts, as he's a great outside person, loves his garden etc, but he's controlling it well. As to coffee, don't get the wrong idea. 'Going out for coffee' means driving 3 miles to the village and having a coffee in one of the two bakeries there. But I admit, the Dutch LOVE their coffee, so it's always good, and the bakers are good too, so it is a nice little treat to go out. Normally we might go out like this every week or two, but right now it's an excuse to get Mr C out, so we go most days.
Sinterklaas fever is continuing to crescendo. The good Saint is arriving in our village this Saturday, so the streets will be packed with excited kids plus parents, grandparents, and friends who just enjoy the atmosphere. Of course, as luck would have it, that is also the day of the church Christmas Fair, and as I have some duties there I probably won't get to see the Good Holy Man, at least not on Saturday. But he's to be seen all over at this time of year, so I haven't given up hope yet!

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