No idea, Nogs, but it's nothing personal cos it does it to me too!
And as to last night's dress code, you can be sure that the other blokes got an earful from their ladies, when they saw how spiffy you looked compared to the other slobs. HL will have garnered many brownie points from being with the smoothest fella there! 
Daffs, seeing the new year in with candlelight and a glass of something nice sounds perfect! But what a shame someone was such a pain with a Secret Santa----as you said, it's just a bit of fun and a nice thought, why make everyone uncomfortable with it? Weird. Oh, and good luck with the bagels. I believe they're tricky to make; too doughy for my taste, so never tried, but we wait with basted breasts for your account of the process! 
Tubs, scuse me for saying so, but it sounds like your mum and step-mum ought to join Yummy's sister in outer darkness. They should both have been bliddy chuffed that you thought of them and sent flowers; such ungracious people don't deserve you!!!!! But good for you with the Penguin Challenge---gives you a good reason to take some time to do something enjoyable for yourself every day.
Snaily, well walked! And welcome to the wonderful world of tomato soup
You don't know what you've been missing! As for your mum, a big hooray for her! Glad she had a great evening, hope it's the first of many this year!
Spence, 4 miles is an admirable start to the year! I hope the fire and the book allowed you to zzzz off comfortably 
Sue, oatcakes and cheese are the BEST. We can get proper Nairns ones here, and I think I could live on them. Great start to the year!
Didn't get to bed til 4.30 , so a lazy day, starting as always with the new year's concert from Vienna. Then took some food round to a friend who couldn't come last night; his wife is in the US caring for her dying mother (who, ironically, has rallied thanks to Tommie's good care---she's been there for 3 months, and can't stay forever, but she can't leave either, it's a tough situation) and their dog has just developed diabetes and the vet was afraid all the fireworks last night would scare him and cause a blood sugar spike so Jeremy had to stay with him. Some people really do have all the bad luck. Now C2 and friends have gone out together and the rest of us are doing sweet FA for the rest of the day! Resolutions etc may arrive tomorrow, after a bit more sleep 