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seren nos yn canu    pirate
27/09/2010 at 13:05
Nam wrote (see)

  Likewise my my other bessie male mate has been single for coming up to 8 years now and he'd make someone a perfect boyfriend.  He's loyal, friendly, a great listener (counsellor!), has a really fab moral code and would never cheat on anyone...  again women just don't seem to be interested...


Sorry Nam......you made him sound like a labrador.............

sorry

Hugs to everyone out there married or single who is lonely

Nam
27/09/2010 at 13:06
Mister W... I've tried that but unfortunately there's no spark.
Nam
27/09/2010 at 13:07
seren nos wrote (see)
Sorry Nam......you made him sound like a labrador.............

LOL and in many ways that would not be too far off the mark.  As a friend he's certainly been as loyal as an old labrador!!
27/09/2010 at 13:51

I was single for two years after my marriage ended. 

I was fit, healthy, member of a running club, owned my own flat, financially independent, not unattractive (so I'm told).

During that time I had two dates. 

Then I met my lovely, lovely, Squeeze  (at a forum social!)

So although it's not by any means guaranteed, don't be too dismayed by the fact that some people take longer to find their "significant other" than others.

Just cos it hasn't happened yet, Min, doesn't mean it won't ever.

27/09/2010 at 14:14

(((((((((Min))))))))

I might end up being in the same position (not missionary unfortunately ).  I split up with my long-term partner in May and a friend asked me if I'd met anyone I'm interested in since the split.  Although it's a bit soon for me to be thinking about getting back into a relationship I said to her "What if I never met anyone?".  It's definitely a possibility. 

Edited: 27/09/2010 at 15:10
27/09/2010 at 15:39
Oh you meet people Parklife and there is fun to be had along the way.  it's not all doom and gloom, honest.
27/09/2010 at 15:59
As long as I don't meet gloomy men BDB - there are a few of those out there.
27/09/2010 at 16:08
You're right, plenty of gloomy peeps.  Just go for the fun ones for now.  The art there though is separating the nutters from the genuinely fun ones.  Doesn't matter about futures etc at this stage, just enjoy yourself.
27/09/2010 at 16:18
Ha ha BDB I wouldn't say I'm particularly spoilt for choice generally, either of nutters or fun ones.   But I'm not somene who actively seeks out potential dates/partners anyway, I just wait for them to drift towards me (can be a long wait ) + I've got plenty of really good male friends and for anything else, I s'pose I could always go on one of those sites selling plastic battery-operated items.
27/09/2010 at 16:22
I'm sure I don't know what you mean
Nam
27/09/2010 at 16:28
Parklife wrote (see)
 I s'pose I could always go on one of those sites selling plastic battery-operated items.

I suddenly realised you's not a boy...
27/09/2010 at 16:30

And separating the nutters from rest is an interesting experience.   At least if you get it wrong you come out with some tales to tell .... thank you but I don't want to hear about your mother's bunions ... 

Men in their 40s and early 50s generally want to meet women in their 30s.  Must be the kudos of having a yonger girlfriend.  Not sure what that leaves for those of us in our mid 40s ...  

Nam
27/09/2010 at 16:34
Tickled Pink wrote (see)

Men in their 40s and early 50s generally want to meet women in their 30s.  Must be the kudos of having a yonger girlfriend.  Not sure what that leaves for those of us in our mid 40s ...  


This is exactly what 2 female friends of mine said who both trialled dating websites.  Both are in their early 40s and look lots younger but didn't feel they should have to lie about their age and all the men had set their upper age limit to often at least 10 years younger than themselves and the lowest age limit set to 18 even if they were 40-odd....
27/09/2010 at 16:57
Lots of people think I'm a boy on here.  It does say on my profile that I'm not.  I'm not very girly tho' and can be foul-mouthed at times.
27/09/2010 at 17:01

When I've been on dating sights I sent my limits to 5 years either side.  I've seen women who were younger, same age and older than me.  My ex is 4 years older than me, so it really doesn't bother me.  If you are attracted to someone, age really doesn't matter.  My sis in law for example is 14 year older than my brother.

27/09/2010 at 17:07
Tee-hee I just re-read my last post.  No wonder men don't chat me up.
27/09/2010 at 17:09

Foul mouthed at the right time can be good Parklife

Did I just type that?

Anyway, very inclement weather we're having lately ......

27/09/2010 at 17:15
Nam wrote (see)

Likewise my my other bessie male mate has been single for coming up to 8 years now and he'd make someone a perfect boyfriend.  He's loyal, friendly, a great listener (counsellor!), has a really fab moral code and would never cheat on anyone...  again women just don't seem to be interested...


As you know him well, can you see why?  Is he "too nice"?

27/09/2010 at 17:24
Badly Drawn Bloke wrote (see)

Foul mouthed at the right time can be good Parklife

Did I just type that?

Anyway, very inclement weather we're having lately ......


Would you like me to talk dirty to you BDB?  My rates are v reasonable ....
27/09/2010 at 17:32

Lol Parklife - if we're moving straight onto "pay the friggin' invoice or else" I had best give it a miss

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