Hoose is out of here.

I am out of here because no matter what I say, in the eyes of some, I'll be "bad" -even through stuff "I don't say" I get condemned. I have just stopped smoking and do not with to jeopardise that, I will do well on my runs. I may come back but you will not know who as and when,

But the name Hoose-Goer will go and is associated with bad stuff by some of you lot. Stu as a person, a human being, a counsellor and actually very caring and warm person has been lost through hoose(if you get me)

If I carry on as hoose I will get more flack, probably get down and give up my running. I cannot do right for wrong in the eyes of some, sadly.

I feel very hurt at having to do this. I will speak to you again but not as hoose and at a time of my chosing.

to those who have actually been genuinely supportive -thanks so much and good luck

for those who have not, good luck


I will find it hard to resist answering here but I will try not to.

hoose

Don't do it Hoose!

F*ck sake Hoose!

Every so often you throw a right huff for no reason. Get a grip man.

You will probably never meet your dissenters so what difference does their opinions make? None...

Ok cheeriebye Hoose.

All the best.

There’s so much I’d like to say I don’t know where to begin. I have avoided saying anything directly to you since I don’t think it will help anyone but...

You have posted other threads and posts criticising the AD thread – leave them alone it’s their thread and helps them. You have numerous threads all focused on you – why undermine theirs?

Have you stopped to consider the effect your behaviour has had on a new poster who expressed tentative comments? It would have frightened me off, being such a focus of attention – they may not be seeking it.

I am professionally qualified and can place many letters after my name –so what? Well only a very few people on this forum know what I do – the reason is, that I come on here to play and occasionally (often!)wash my dirty linen. I do not wish to misrepresent my profession nor give advice in an inappropriate setting. We all know that the forum is an ideal place to misrepresent yourself to others. The first thing I do in my job is gather as many facts as possible before spouting my conclusions. You cannot do that on the forum and therefore I would hesitate to suggest that counselling ‘online’ is a good thing. A qualified counsellor would agree?

You repeatedly inform people of your counselling abilities/qualifications etc – I’m not sure that my professional body would approve if I quoted them online and posted as you have – in fact I would expect them to take great issues with that member. Professional accountability can only take place against a member though.

Posting as the ‘victim’ encourages other forumites who feel the same emotions whether it be sad, struggling, lonely, bullied etc to align themselves with you but it also removes you of any responsibility for your own actions. I think that your initial remark on its own is a relatively innocuous opinion BUT not to those who know how you have posted in the past and this is why it received such a response.

I sincerely wish you well as you are struggling obviously with many issues. As you have pointed out about the AD thread – maybe sometimes repeatedly posting is just feeding that struggle – is this something you should consider in light of your own repeated posts on similar topics.

I do wish you well.

Bog off then hoose, see you soon big man:-)

That was rather well said Mrs Pig.

Thank you MP, expressed with great articulateness and decency .

Hoose is dead. Long live Hoose!

See you back here soon, big guy.

One word for you: punchbag!!

:-D

God I'm sick of all this!!!

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morning JB

I know what you mean, had a mate who was into AmDram and it used to get like this now and again - Give me Coops crappy jokes and thieving dog ate my mushrooms any day of the week, - Smile Man (as Neil from the young ones would say)

Morning GD - I am deffo out of the loop on this one!

JB do you know what the AD thread is?

morning JB

Neither do I

Hasta la vista baby

I know what the AD thread is but dunno what's goin on.

Morning Corinth.



I'm just off to the gym so doubtless all will be klaar when I get back - possibly.

so what is it JB