Hoose is out of here.

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25/02/2007 at 04:04
I am out of here because no matter what I say, in the eyes of some, I'll be "bad" -even through stuff "I don't say" I get condemned. I have just stopped smoking and do not with to jeopardise that, I will do well on my runs. I may come back but you will not know who as and when,

But the name Hoose-Goer will go and is associated with bad stuff by some of you lot. Stu as a person, a human being, a counsellor and actually very caring and warm person has been lost through hoose(if you get me)

If I carry on as hoose I will get more flack, probably get down and give up my running. I cannot do right for wrong in the eyes of some, sadly.

I feel very hurt at having to do this. I will speak to you again but not as hoose and at a time of my chosing.

to those who have actually been genuinely supportive -thanks so much and good luck

for those who have not, good luck


I will find it hard to resist answering here but I will try not to.

hoose
25/02/2007 at 05:30
Don't do it Hoose!
25/02/2007 at 07:29
F*ck sake Hoose!

Every so often you throw a right huff for no reason. Get a grip man.

You will probably never meet your dissenters so what difference does their opinions make? None...
25/02/2007 at 08:26
Ok cheeriebye Hoose.

All the best.
25/02/2007 at 08:31
There’s so much I’d like to say I don’t know where to begin. I have avoided saying anything directly to you since I don’t think it will help anyone but...

You have posted other threads and posts criticising the AD thread – leave them alone it’s their thread and helps them. You have numerous threads all focused on you – why undermine theirs?

Have you stopped to consider the effect your behaviour has had on a new poster who expressed tentative comments? It would have frightened me off, being such a focus of attention – they may not be seeking it.

I am professionally qualified and can place many letters after my name –so what? Well only a very few people on this forum know what I do – the reason is, that I come on here to play and occasionally (often!)wash my dirty linen. I do not wish to misrepresent my profession nor give advice in an inappropriate setting. We all know that the forum is an ideal place to misrepresent yourself to others. The first thing I do in my job is gather as many facts as possible before spouting my conclusions. You cannot do that on the forum and therefore I would hesitate to suggest that counselling ‘online’ is a good thing. A qualified counsellor would agree?

You repeatedly inform people of your counselling abilities/qualifications etc – I’m not sure that my professional body would approve if I quoted them online and posted as you have – in fact I would expect them to take great issues with that member. Professional accountability can only take place against a member though.

Posting as the ‘victim’ encourages other forumites who feel the same emotions whether it be sad, struggling, lonely, bullied etc to align themselves with you but it also removes you of any responsibility for your own actions. I think that your initial remark on its own is a relatively innocuous opinion BUT not to those who know how you have posted in the past and this is why it received such a response.

I sincerely wish you well as you are struggling obviously with many issues. As you have pointed out about the AD thread – maybe sometimes repeatedly posting is just feeding that struggle – is this something you should consider in light of your own repeated posts on similar topics.

I do wish you well.
25/02/2007 at 08:33
Bog off then hoose, see you soon big man:-)
25/02/2007 at 08:33
That was rather well said Mrs Pig.
25/02/2007 at 08:37
Thank you MP, expressed with great articulateness and decency .
25/02/2007 at 09:19
Hoose is dead. Long live Hoose!

See you back here soon, big guy.

One word for you: punchbag!!

:-D
25/02/2007 at 09:31
God I'm sick of all this!!!
25/02/2007 at 09:45
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25/02/2007 at 09:46
morning JB
25/02/2007 at 09:46
I know what you mean, had a mate who was into AmDram and it used to get like this now and again - Give me Coops crappy jokes and thieving dog ate my mushrooms any day of the week, - Smile Man (as Neil from the young ones would say)
25/02/2007 at 09:47
Morning GD - I am deffo out of the loop on this one!
25/02/2007 at 09:49
JB do you know what the AD thread is?
25/02/2007 at 09:53
morning JB
25/02/2007 at 09:53
Neither do I
25/02/2007 at 09:55
Hasta la vista baby
25/02/2007 at 10:00
I know what the AD thread is but dunno what's goin on.

Morning Corinth.



I'm just off to the gym so doubtless all will be klaar when I get back - possibly.
25/02/2007 at 10:01
so what is it JB
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