Sorry Ratzer, it takes me 1:45 to run 10miles. 15minutes to cooldown, shower and change is 2hours a day. Add that to 12hours of commute/work, an hour cooking and eating, that gives me 9 hours a day to sleep and get ready for work. Assuming the wife is in to look after the kids, if she's out then there is nowhere to fit the 2hours in.
For some people that sort of dedication is just not possible.
I've read back through and I'm not sure what this thread is covering. There's a tendency to claim "my commitments are tougher than your commitments" and a counter-argument of "well, if you wanted it enough...".
If you don't have time to run, why be a runner?
I don't have time to coach, so I'm not a coach. I don't have money to become a doctor because I can't take out six years unpaid due to my other commitments. I can run a bit, and have manipulated and managed the rest of my life around to give myself an opportunity to do what I enjoy to the best of my ability, without losing out on other commitments, responsibilities, and enjoyments.
When I had a 44+ mile commute to work, I changed jobs. I wasn't a runner back then. Simply in the opinions of me and my family it wasn't sustainable for us. That's no comment on whether anyone else is capable of or able to make that change. You either fit what pastime you enjoy into the time you have, or you don't really enjoy it as much as you enjoy the rest of what you are doing anyway.
How many miles do you run a week?
Its just that i've been reading my new book and there's a chap in there that used to bang out 160 miles a weeks !! obviously an elite runner but still thats amazing. Us normal people who work and have other commitments struggle sometimes just to find the time..
44 this week. About 8 with my son at athletics club. About 12 during his two football training sessions between dropping him off and picking him up. 8-10 on Sunday morning whilst the family lies in. The rest speckled into early morning runs before I leave for work - only a couple of miles each - and lunchtime runs in the office. When higher mileage training does arrive I drive to about 12 miles away from the office, cycle in and then run back to the car. The following morning I do the opposite. On Wednesday mornings I take my daughter to swimming club before school, and swim in the public lanes alongside.
If I didn't enjoy it, I wouldn't do it.