I've just posted this on FB
We did it wrong because we're morons. Basically we thought the calendar was on Feb cut it had defaulted to Dec, we were both tired and distracted and D phoned up this morning and pleaded incompetence. They weren't going to have it but he made a very good plea about the morality of the situation, and he talked the manager into a full refund barr £140 processing fee. WHEW! THANK YOU COSMOS!
I'll add to this that their first offer was the same holiday at feb half term, but the price was out of our league. I think they felt sorry for us because D did say that it was completely our fault and we thought they were under no legal oblgation etc to refund.. he did point out that he knew the rules were there to protect the company from people pulling out late when they could have resold the holiday at an earlier date, but he said that realistically they couldn't tell him that they would have sold that holiday for a flight date within a week, from the time we made the booking last night to first thing this morning.
Thanks everyone for the replies, really appreciate it. We have learnt a £140 lesson.
I was desperately wondering this morning if I could sell a holiday on Ebay!
Edited: 10/12/2012 at 18:05