On the water wagon here; have been for a good few years now; but then I'm a member of Alcoholics Anonymous.
Can I just put a plug in (not the jug) for A.A.? If anyone is struggling to stay stopped, after seriously deciding to stop drinking, there is a real possibility that there's a problem there.
After trying all kinds of ways to moderate my drinking (which always failed), and then trying to stop drinking off-and-on for a number of years I ended up in A.A.. It's the smartest thing I've ever done.
Just saying! A.A. is easy to find; there's a website, there's their telephone number (manned by recovered alkies), and there's meetings everywhere. In my local city there's over 90 meetings per week.
I'll shut up now. Thanks.