I have tried a few - I tend to be quite busy for a coupl eof months then get bored.
Plenty of fish I have an account and have had contact form a coupleof potentials but not interesting enough for me to want to meet them
I am too skint to use the pay ones - I have used benaughty as well and like carterus says not everyone is a soleless sex maniac on there but I find the arseholes reveal themselves much faster - Judging by stories of the normal dating site people screw jump into bed very fast these days anyway - its not the type of site you are on it how you use it and I can think of at least one RW old face who has shagged half more blokes in four years than I have in my lifetime yet people will thinnk I am sadder for having a profile on benaughty
I am currently not really that active on any, I have decided I should get a life first instead and I am off to my first local Spice event tonight to try and get a wider circle of friends I figure the more of those I have the more likely one or more might 'know someone'