I don't remember him being an arse when he was in D:Ream. Yes, I met all of the band as I worked in a venue they played at. Hubby did the lighting for him that night, or at least helped to set it up. I think they might have had their own lighting technician that did the actual show while Hubby did it for the warm up band.
And roadies think that anyone who makes them do work is a pain in the butt.