What Fat Buddha said. (Especially about the spanking).
These days if you want to chat, you go on facebook or twitter, if you want to meet up you go on meetup.com, this place used to be the only option
the doggetts socials used to be great, as were the curry nights, the picnics in hyde park, and the south west socials

if anyone organises a pub evening on a Friday or Saturday I'll probably be there
otherwise see you at VLM!