RW/Pirate London Christmas Social

would anyone be interested

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05/10/2012 at 08:14

I think it is very much a clique and hard to get into - BUT once you know a few faces I think it becomes a lot friendly and easier to 'blend in'. I was in Chandos last year and knew noone except TP (because she spoke to me at Mile 17).... so somehow I ended up upstairs with the Fetchies because someone saw that I was bit lost and asked if I wanted to join them. Now, with having known a few more people - I think it'd be slightly different as I'd know who to look for?

Someone asked what it was about Fetch - I think it's a friendly community feel  but on and offline. I've ran with a few Fetchies at races and they ALL speak to each other and acknowledge each other. It's partly the kit (so they all recognise another Fetchie) but everyone seems inclusive.

05/10/2012 at 14:30

One of the reasons why I don't post 'outside my own thread' as kk puts it, is because whenever I find one that interests me it turns into a 'why is the forum so crap these days?' thread.

I would love to come to a London social if a date is agreed that I can commit to.  I have very fond memories of the one or two that I have been able to make it to.  But please stop telling me that I'm boring because I can't be bothered to listen to the same old arguements over and over again

Tommygun, please go ahead and promote the social.  I appreciate the effort you are going to and know how hard it is to come up with something that suits everyone

 

05/10/2012 at 15:13
T.mouse wrote (see)

Why not post something on the beginners section or elsewhere.
I saw this thread but didn't bother looking at it, why? because I don't really feel part of the RW community - the Meldy's KK's, Wilkies etc.
I don't feel like I belong, I don't feel like the invite means me.  I don't feel like I'm part of the club as it were.

Forums have a life, people come and go. Most people don't stay for long. I read the avarage was 6 months.

You put 'pirate' and people feel excluded, I certainly do.The pub scenario keeps cropping up. Well if you walked into a pub and a group of old friends were chatting, would you sit down and join in with them or would you sit in a quiet corner somewhere (and wait to be introduced as it were)?

I turned up to my first social, several years ago, not knowing anyone. 

I bought myself a drink, stood around looking for people who looked like runners, and pushed past my inclination to turn tail and go home.

Someone came up to me and asked me if I was a runner, and then suddenly I was talking to a group of people.  The people who already knew each other welcomed me into the group.  Because at a social people are expecting new folk, and want them to join in.

I'm not a pirate, but don't feel that excludes me.  The pirates still talk to me (if only to try and convert me to tri!)

I overcame my natural reluctance to talk to strangers, and was very glad that I did.

You can't expect to feel/be part of a community/group if you don't make some effort yourself. 

05/10/2012 at 15:34

in t'old days - when this place was all fields etc - many of us had already met up at various races around the country so when the 1st socials came along, many of us already knew each other and that helped cut the ice easily.   others who did turn up not knowing anyone could feel a bit intimidated but most joined in easily.

one of the 1st socials back in 2004 was a Xmas lunch meet in Reading - meet up, have a run, have Sunday lunch and a few beers, go home - some of us who were at that are still in touch either on here or by other means.  many have become good friends.

for those who are interested in going, do so - it's a good way to meet others of a similar mind.  for some of us who have been there, got the t-shirts etc, it's perhaps not so important in our running life these days - we've moved on.

05/10/2012 at 21:41

Werp !

Hope    pirate
06/10/2012 at 16:15

So, ummmm... We going out then or what??

06/10/2012 at 19:51
I'll be there.
Tommygun2    pirate
09/10/2012 at 22:29

cool womble that make about four of us oh and my wife wants to come so thats 5 then sofar.

oh a date yes well what about Friday 14th December or sat 15th December.

Location might as well go to Doggets and Badge (or whatever its called)

10/10/2012 at 09:05

I should be able to make 14th or 15th December.

10/10/2012 at 14:08
I would humbly suggest the Friday so people can come along after work. Even from the south west London suburbs there's a high chance of me suffering cba on a Saturday. I would of course be bringing a frog.
10/10/2012 at 14:12

I'll come from south west suburbs too

10/10/2012 at 14:18
Womble wrote (see)
I would humbly suggest the Friday so people can come along after work. Even from the south west London suburbs there's a high chance of me suffering cba on a Saturday.

I second that.  I don't do London on weekends.

Tommygun2    pirate
10/10/2012 at 15:07

Same here actualy as I work in London but live miles outside. OK Friday it will be 14th Dec any good

10/10/2012 at 17:25
Christmas Social, even pirates welcome
Date: Friday 14 December 2012
Venue: Doggetts Coat & Badge, south side of Blackfriars Bridge
Time: about 5.30pm until they throw us out

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Womble
10/10/2012 at 19:29

I don't think I can make that Friday.  Very disappointed   Would rather be there than at the Christmas do I've already paid to go to

Tommygun2    pirate
10/10/2012 at 20:02

Christmas Social, even pirates welcome
Date: Friday 14 December 2012
Venue: Doggetts Coat & Badge, south side of Blackfriars Bridge
Time: about 5.30pm until they throw us out

The List

Womble
Tommygun2 & Mrs TG2

 

Maybe list (for those lurking but not sure yet, we'll talk you into it)

10/10/2012 at 20:09
Tommygun2 wrote (see)

Christmas Social, even pirates welcome
Date: Friday 14 December 2012
Venue: Doggetts Coat & Badge, south side of Blackfriars Bridge
Time: about 5.30pm until they throw us out

The List

Womble
Tommygun2 & Mrs TG2

Goji

 

Maybe list (for those lurking but not sure yet, we'll talk you into it)

 

Tommygun2    pirate
10/10/2012 at 20:30

weldone Goji just one thing when adding to any list on RW all you need to do is copy and paste and add you name. The quote thing doesn't work well

Christmas Social, even pirates welcome
Date: Friday 14 December 2012
Venue: Doggetts Coat & Badge, south side of Blackfriars Bridge
Time: about 5.30pm until they throw us out

The List

Womble
Tommygun2 & Mrs TG2
Goji

 

Maybe list (for those lurking but not sure yet, we'll talk you into it)

10/10/2012 at 21:07

Due to it being a Friday I would be getting into London with about enough time to turn right round and head back to Paddington for the last train home.

For that reason, I am out

 

10/10/2012 at 21:26
I knew something was wrong... Sorry
Do we need to book? Might be busy on a December Friday
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