One of my daughters had a tarantula (oh and lizards etc.) so not really frightened of the things having held one many times. One Halloween, when she was a teenager, she answered the door to some children with the spider just holding on the front of her jumper, I can still hear the screams
To feed them, and the lizards, means putting your hand in a jar and grabbing a handful of live cockroaches to throw in with them, fun in itself if you don't like creepy crawlies. In the summer we used to go out catching grasshoppers for a treat (for them not for us
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