full time mother and wife.............
Same as Seren but the pay is shit so I'm considering gainful employment from this month onwards.
Convince me why I should.....
Independence, independence, independence!
I've never NOT worked, and I wouldn't be comfortable not earning my own money (unless I have a nice lottery win!)
I do earn it.
I cook, clean, wash, iron, taxi, run homework classes and a million other things. If Mr LB were to pay someone separately for everything I do, he'd be bankrupt!
I have never understood this "independence" thing. I have access to all our money. We're married. Two halves of the same coin. It's not his cash - it's ours. He doesn't view it as "his" money and tell me what to buy or I couldn't have stayed at home as long as I have. And I'd have divorced him!
The only reason I would go to work now is because the kids don't need me half so much as they did when they were little and I need to keep active.
But independence? No. I don't want independence. It sucks.