I'm not putting anyone down, and I'm not trying to belittle anyone's achievement, as just completing a marathon is impressive. I also appreciate that not everyone will have the time or inclination to try and break 3.45, but what I am saying that if someone does want a GFA place, then trying to break 3.45 as a twenty-something woman doesn't require the same level of commitment as trying to break 3hrs as a twenty-something man.
For my last marathon my training partner was female, she's the same age as me, we have very similar lifestyles (except she smokes and I don't) and we did most of our training training together. Hence we a covered similar weekly mileage at a similar pace.
In the end I completed the marathon in 3.40 and she did just over 4hrs. Given our commitment to training was almost equal, she only needs to knock 15 minutes off to get a GFA place, I need to knock 40 minutes off. Why should there be such a discrepancy?