new dad's + running

how do we manage

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31/01/2011 at 23:40
Hey. Just thought I'd start this thread as I'm training for a race and hope to manage fatherhood at the same time, I hope we can share tips etc to see how life be made more amenable during this time
01/02/2011 at 13:15

[bites tongue to avoid making comments about logistics]

When's the race, and when's the baby due?  Hopefully not too close together, or you may find yourself either disappointed or very unpopular! 

01/02/2011 at 13:31

Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha..... (and not mentioning your spurious apostrophe).  I'm a new dad and although I would love to get out and run it really isn't possible unless I abandon my wife and daughter for an hour each evening, which would make me as popular as syphilis at a porn star's convention.

   

If you intend to keep up your running during the early weeks (months) you'll have to find a way to do it which doesn't impact on your time with your baby.  Can you run at lunchtime?

01/02/2011 at 14:20

We have a 10 month old but I've just about kept running going. Lunch time is good, as MW says. Also running to work instead of sitting on the tube is a good idea.

I'm training for a marathon at the moment and I've had to cut down the number of weekend long runs, as otherwise I wouldn't be about. I also do them early - i.e. 6.30 am, so I'm done before the day has really got going.

 Good luck!

01/02/2011 at 14:31

I'm with Nessie ..............*bites tongue*!

You haven't said what the race is.  Is it a long one or shorter one, obviously a shorter one being more do-able on getting out to train?

01/02/2011 at 14:36

We have a 3 month old. Fortunately I have a fairly understanding wife who also likes running. Lunchtimes aren't an option for me, neither is running to or from work, so it has to be early mornings and evenings. I'm working towards making my training as efficient as possible.

It will be more of an issue once Mrs CB goes back to work though!

01/02/2011 at 14:59

what's the problem?

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01/02/2011 at 15:08
Baby can't go in a jogger till approx 5 months but before that you'll probably be too tired anyway!
01/02/2011 at 15:21
ah finally a thread i can relate to! parenthood and running are hard to combine, especially if your working long hours too!
ive got 3 kids aged 1, 5 and 7 and work 12hr shifts on a 4 on 4 off rotation. ive been able to maintain racing this last 7 years but there does have to be compromise. ie my marathon times are down by at least 40mins. its all one big juggling act, but certainly keeps you on your toes! i guess also it helps if your other half is a bit of a runner as then you understand the importance of that bit of me time and the relief running gives you!
01/02/2011 at 15:41
I already have a buggy on standby in the cellar for when Little Miss W is old enough.
01/02/2011 at 16:34

4 kids ... 50 miles per week ... just get yourself organised. 

Seriously, the great thing about running is its flexibility ... it's the ideal passtime to fit around a busy life.

01/02/2011 at 17:05

currently have a broken leg, although should be somewhat healed by now, so. this is from past rather than current expeirence

 i have three girls, 2,4,5. Family has to come first, so if the wife looks like she could turn violent if i suggest going for a run, i skip it.

Get used to running at 8/9/10pm, when the kids are (hopefully) in bed.

I managed to train for the London Marathon last year, but i have to admit, I didnt do it on my own, and my wife sacrificed quite aq bit for me to be able to do it, particularly the long runs at the weekend. Impossible to stick to a program though.

 ...yep, flexibility is definately the key, you have to be flexible, but thankfully, so is running!

01/02/2011 at 17:52
Wow,thread is thread is red hot. Babyis due this week, the 7th to be exact. Training for the forest of dean half. It's on march 27. It looks loke allot of you guys fit it in anywhere you can... o am looking into a baby jogger now
01/02/2011 at 18:56
Good luck for the 7th or when baby does arrive    Have a look on ebay too for joggers, they are very expensive new.  I've not long sold our one on on ebay as little C won't sit still long enough now!
01/02/2011 at 18:56
sham, ive seen that 'look' from my wife too!

Brynster, sure you will fit it all in mate. the arrival of your first throws everything on its head for a week of two, or at leqst it did in my house! you dont get a guide book or a manual either! im actually quite envious of you, those first days are priceless! my kids now come and support me and my 7yf old has already done some fun runs and a mini duathlon. Running is a real family affair for us, the highlight was the 24hr Thunder Run in August last year. a 10k off road course and i managed to park our motorhome at the start/finish line so every lap we did we were greeted with cheers and banners!
01/02/2011 at 19:32
baby joggers rock - didn't have one with the first child but ran with a mountain buggy, got one off ebay second time around and wished I'd had one earlier, the ARE expensive but if you intend to get seriously into running with child(ren) then well worth the expense in my book. Early mornings, late evenings and extreme flexibility are the key in our household.
01/02/2011 at 19:33
sorry, shouldn't be on here as not a dad - usually post on the 'mums who run' thread (how to get going again after pregnancy)
01/02/2011 at 19:45

Relating to this thread very much indeed! I've been blessed with two boys 3 years and 7 months. I've taken a step back seeing as 18 hours shifts as a chef and having a family are very much like oil & water plus adding training sessions into the mix; I've seen "THE LOOK" many a time. I find it easier to get out as soon as my wife gets in so that I'm back for bed time duties. Other than that understanding is needed.

01/02/2011 at 21:10

Cragchick, maybe ill change the title, it will be a little bit more diverse then at least?

I have found the running buggy that im going to get, its this one..Out and about , i live in Swansea so i can do some of the Swansea Bay 5 k races by the time they come around, july/august time?

Does anyone have a treadmill and do you use it indoor when the baby is there?

01/02/2011 at 22:51

I shouldn't worry about changing the title - us women are a nosy bunch and will invade anyway!!  We have a dad who regularly posts on the thread, he is an honoury member. I know one of the mums on our thread has the out and about and uses it - she's seriously speedy too. 

Mine are too big for the buggy now at 6 and almost 4 but both loved it and would usually fall asleep when out in it. Unfortunately hubby not a runner so could never persuade him to take them off my hands in it but you could gain extra brownie points I am sure.

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