OK, went to the surgeon this morning for my consultation.
I was weighed and came in slightly over the BMI limit, which concerned me enough to ask the nurse if it would be a problem, and she said that the doctor would discuss it with me.
The surgeon said it was an issue until I explained that I run marathons, and had tested my body fat and my BP was 110/60 with a resting BP of about 48, and she said that it was mainly the anaesthetist that would be twitchy about the weight thing.
She was nice and friendly, with people skills thankfully and she answered my questions, asking me what treatment I was on, and stuff like that. She also said she wanted to know why someone my age was doing this. (Most people undergoing this are either late teens/early 20s, or they are 40+. At my age I am in the middle.
Then she checked me physically - but before she even got hands-on she said that my body shape hadn't changed enough to make surgery at this point successful. She said that if I had it now, I'd possibly need corrections, and that every surgery after the first is just chasing things.
She's going to see me in 6 months, and wants me to get my hormone therapy changed asap to another sort that should be stronger and help my body make changes quicker. I've asked to have the surgery 12 months from now in order to be able to ensure a more successful outcome to the job.
I think that gives me something to work at, but I am disappointed as I think this situation could have been avoided if the people responsible for my hormone care had kept regular tabs on it as last month we found it had dropped to well below the acceptable level - and that was only because I had raised concerns that things that had been happening were suddenly reversing themselves.
Am just quite sad at the moment.