Michelle -- get him a blank card. You know one of those arty ones or one with sunflowers on or something and write your own message in it. I hope he doesn't have to have further treatment but even if he does, like you all told me, it's not a death sentence these days, most cancers, especially in young people respond really well and I'm assuming he's relatively young like you..? I know how worried you and all the family must be right now but try to keep thinking positive. In my case I just kept thinking, it could have been worse, so in Steve's case, it could have been the lump could have been somewhere he wouldn't necessarily have seen it and you know, 13 weeks isn't so long. It's only just over 3 months so it's likely it's caught really early. Try not to worry too much hun. Love Cath.
Sharon -- good luck with the Oban race on Sunday!! Oh and breast awareness is good enough with a self exam every two weeks, so my nurse says but I agree with you, more can't harm can it!