Here's my story (and no I didn't just copy yours).........
About 12months ago I played 5-a-side and felt a stiffness in my Rt groin - took about 10mins to run off then I finished the match fine - the day later I couldn't walk because I had pain in my groin and lower right hand side of my abs. I didn't play football for 6weeks during which time I had weekly physio and my physio said he suspected a sports hernia (he was right). When I went back to football following this I had a constant feeling of weakness and nagging pain and couldn't sprint, only short strides - then in a match I went in for a challenge and felt like i'd been shot in the groin - immediately got a lump in the tendon in my groin and a hell of a lot of ab pain couldn't walk again for 3 days. Turns out this time I ruptured a tendon as well as agravating the existing sports hernia.
Went back to physio and he referred me on to the sports hernia specialist - a Doc called Mr Scott in Fairfield hospital in Crank who has operated on a whole range of people from pro-footballers to non-sports people, he had done hundreds of these cases now. He assessed me in a similar way, but he felt the area by inserting his fingers underneath the weak area - no good way to say this but the only way to feel the area is through the scrotum......nice! Anyhow, he confirmed the sports hernia and I had the op very soon after.
He said that everything went to plan and there were no surprises when he opened me up - apparently he uses some new kind of mesh from France that has reduced complication rates too. Post op was not very pleasant - quite a lot of pain and discomfort for the first few weeks but I guess thats to be expected with any op, but then when you add in the fact that the op was on an area that your body uses for every single movement from sitting up to coughing its going to cause a bit of pain! Oh, and then the re-growth of hair was a bit of an itch!!!
Once the staples were out (2wks I think) it felt a hundred times more comfortable and I could start to do some rehab.and physio. I had physio once a week for about 12 weeks and gradually increased my rehab starting with some walking then pool jogging, gentle jogging, faster jogging and then sprints. All the while I was doing core stability exercises to strenghten the area and correct the muscle imbalance.
That was Dec 09 and I am doing a 10k this coming Sunday and the Great North Run this year too. I've played football for the past few weeks and feel nothing from the sports hernia op site - just a weakness in the tendong that I ruptured, but its getting stronger and stronger. Knowing what I know now would I have it done again? Definitely. I didn't realise at the time but even before the large 'events' I described above it was nagging away and I'd have aching and stiffness there for a couple of days after running or playing football.
Now it feels strong but weird - if I put pressure on the area by turning my foot inwards whilst there is resistance against it (as if your trying to move a box just with your foot) then I get a feeling in the op site - its not pain and its not uncomfortable - its just that I feel the whole area contract and pull together, maybe thats everything contracting around the mesh - i don't know, but I certainly couldn't have done that before without any pain.
I would definintely recommend the surgeon I had - I don't think there are many Drs in the Uk that do this - but you may find one closer to home.
If you want to ask anything please don't hesitate - I'd have loved to ask someone all the questions that were on my mind before I had it done - I just had to make do with trying NOT to read horror stories on the net about people who went NHS and ended up in a mess becasue they got treated for a hernia and not a sports hernia!