Just completed my first marathon (time 2:56), I was sceptical at first about gels as mentioned elite runners do not use them. However they train 100-150 miles per week so are used to it plus they only run for 2 hours opposed to us non elite running for 2.5 - 5 hours (dependant on standard)!
I used at 2 miles then every 3 miles after, so had 8 but they were the smaller Hi5 ones (summer fruits the nicest I'd say), they are a bit cheaper than SiS but are smaller so you prob need to consume more. I took them in between the water stops so I was consistently refuelling on a regular basis, which I think helped a lot. I did my last mile in 6:25 so I defo had energy at the end and avoided the wall!
Whether it is psycological or genuinely does help doesnt matter, it what ever gets you through to the finish in the best time! Gels are not hard to carry or hard to consume to why not use them?!
Good luck all, I'm glad to have my spring marathon out of the way already!!