20 mile Road Relay at 2am, alone the whole way carrying a baton. Man, I had guys from the club in their cars driving alongside cheering me on with people scraping me off the ground at the end.
I'd done my bit and clawed back over 20 minutes. I was satisfied, the others were delirious.
I am under an obligation. But one of my own making. I'm also inclined to point out to the members who do all the administration that their job is way harder than anything I get up to.
They disagree, but I've given them the recognition due. How many thank the marshalls at the end of a race?
The guys in the club have all turned up to close out a league or make up a team when carrying a niggle. Its what we chose to do. We chose to do it for the clubs benefit.
For this we acquire respect and status from our peers. But that can also take quite a long time.