Whilst on the thread, I think I might just approach someone soon to help me, so be afraid (and turn off your PM functions!)....
but also more than happy to mentor someone? I did the usual pirate thing of coming from no swim bike run background but did a half one year, then IM Regensburg last year in 12.49.
Very up to speed with the family pressure on training thing! (2 kids, wife not into the whole scene, thinks its all a bit mad etc)