I have only ever done a HIM distance and am therefore lower than Roger the cabin boy.
But as I think Candy God King Blackbeard Pirate said, the main focus is IM. Seems a few are donning pirate gear for sprints and stuff but I kinda feel that if you are going to wear the badge, you have to do the time so to speak.
Re family, I have similar issues, wife who married a guy who never did any sport and was always around the house, 2 kids 5 & 8, yeah it's tough at times "You and your stupid bloody pointless sport, you had better give me all the passwords to our accounts before you do this stupid race" etc.
I suppose it's "How much do you want it?"
I hope I am right in that quality training is the key, not necessarily just hours pounding out the same old route.
And you can't bury the bike to the back of your mind and hope that your swim and run will be good enough. Crikey, I have even bought a fixie/single speed for training and I hate the bike leg of any race coz I am shite at it.
I shall now have to take my own counsel.....bu66er.
Will the missus be at Boltonman?