PowerSauce: Hello from a fellow pedal numpty. I've only had mine for about a month but it's worth sticking with them.
I really struggled with my SPD-SLs even on the lightest setting. Even TT admitted he found them awkward and really had to force his foot out and he’s stronger than me.
Tried and changed to 'Look' and never looked back. Of course I’ve landed on my face a couple of times but that was on both occasions clearly my fault in ‘failing to anticipate’ stuff and not having the experience yet of doing too many things at once, rather than the pedals.
I push my heel down and twist it slightly inwards and out it pops. It’s when I panic that instinct takes over and instinct makes me pull rather than push and twist, and since pulling out is exactly what they prevent you from doing you end up on your face.
Stick with them, it's worth it.