Jj - I'm aware of that, but I'm just hurt and fed up to the back teeth with always being targeted by certain people. I am neither slow nor stupid, just in a different setting from the rest of you, and perfectly aware that I can't expect everyone to like me, but up until now I've treated everyone with respect. That's over. As I said once to a boss who told me off for not attending a dinner in honour of someone, you get my respect when you've earned it. That'll be a cold day in Hell before some do.
Especially as I'm old enough to be mother to most of you, even Grandma to some.
That said, I like almost everyone on here - with a few exceptions.