Nice to see some folks having similar issues.
It is hard and I know that now I'm almost 40 *next month* that it's not going to get easier.
Drink wise
diet coke - 1 can a day at weekends
tea - white (semi skimmed milk) 1 sweetner at home (2mugs) 1 sachet sugar at work (2 cups)
weekdays - 1 options hot chocolate (40cals) a day to start the day off
Alcohol is Fri, Sat Sun if hubby not working (he does odd shifts) and will normally be 1/2 btle of wine
I think 1 of my issues is that I've been overweight for 15yrs now and "on a diet" haha lots of times but I hate my weight and try to forget it so therefore block out what is happening with food. So I don't think and serve up on autopilot meaning too much.
I also have a sweet tooth so 1 biscuit or work sweet and I'm lost for the day. Plus I comfort eat (again volume not lardy) and dad had cancer last year (was given the all clear Oct) then was told in Jan he has prostate cancer. So another excuse.
Garmin tells me I use loads of calories and although I think I mustn't eat all those cals I do naturally compensate and allow for extra hunger. I have, however, sussed the post swim hunger is hydration not food!