TBH I feel a little the same about Henley. It's a UK tri, so no big road trip feel to it, will not have a big expo, huge cheering crowds etc and there may not be thousands of pirates going so its up to us who are to make it what we want. If we scatter all over town, rock up at the last minute, head off first thing Monday it wont feel special, but if we take over a hotel or campsite, stivk together (within reason!!) eat and drink together before and after, it'll be great.
We should sort out a date to recce the course together, do a few group events beforehand to take advantage of the fact its in the UK.
Do some or all of the above and I'll remember it as a great experience, which ultimately is what its about.