Well, I am doing sprints, maybe Olys and poss HIM next year. Long distance and I seem unable to successfully connect and that is likely to be permanent now for various reasons.
I'll get a good few races in, I'll have a whale of a time and still spend time with the family. I'll still run the odd bike ride and encourage anyone locally with what knowledge I have at whatever distance they choose.
If pirates is only about IM then I have a spare Monaco, cycle jacket and cycle top up for grabs, but, however the purists feel, I think it has evolved. I think it will always be about pushing yourself to your personal limit and having a bit of fun at the same time and not taking it TOO seriously.
And as long as you are happy with what you have achieved knowing you have given it the max and not what others think you should achieve, great.
Oh, and bike porn!