Am I mad/crazy... etc etc

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WiB
13/03/2013 at 10:28

Let's stop this "I must be mad" rubbish.

You are not mad/crazy/loopy/wacky. Crazy people don't run, they ride the bus wearing their slippers on the wrong feet chatting to their imaginary friend Gerald.

Edited: 13/03/2013 at 10:30
WiB
13/03/2013 at 11:04

I'll have you know she's called Geraldine.....

13/03/2013 at 11:54

Ha, I came to the conclusion a while back that were the normal ones, it's everyone else who's mad. 'How far', 'why would you want to do that', I don't bother anymore unless asked, which is rarely.

GKD
13/03/2013 at 12:02
No they're not mad. Neither are we, unless you're the aforementioned person on the bus talking to Gerald/ine.
Cheers WiB, those threads were driving me............
GKD
13/03/2013 at 12:04

I've bought a giraffe and I intend to ride it from Scotland to the United Nations building in New York from the top of which I intend to base jump into a manhole before navigating my way through the sewers to the base of the empire state building, before climbing the exterior of that edifice to reach my glider which I will then pilot back out to sea, where I will rendezvous with a pod of dolphins who will bear me back to Britain.

The Giraffe will make his own way back. He's a homing Giraffe.

13/03/2013 at 12:06

I was going to post something around this.  I think my wife thinks I'm "mad" and more or less said that I am now a different person to who she married.  She said this wasn't a bad thing and she wasn't particularly complaining, but said it was hard for her to get her head around.  For info, I've been running regularly for a few years but only fairly recently (Sept 2012) have I brought some proper structure to my training.

She said the only other time she saw me "in the zone" about something to this extent was when I was doing my University degree (we weren't married at that time, but we were together).

I was a bit flummoxed to be honest....I didn't really know how to respond.  She wasn't annoyed about the amount of time I spend running, she said I still pull my weight around the house etc, and we still go out and do stuff with the exception that I don't drink as much, which she is happy about anyway.

13/03/2013 at 12:46

Madness is relative.....

 

13/03/2013 at 14:17
Screamapillar wrote (see)

Madness is relative.....

 

Agree. I've been told that i'm a few screws loose of a full set but I think it's meant in an endearing way. What one person considers mad - the others consider courageous.

@Big_G - It's good that you can run and still do everything around the house. It also shows the strength of your relationship that your wife can tell you that and still be positive about it. maybe she thinks your mad because you seem to have the multi tasking and time management of a woman? 

13/03/2013 at 14:40

Emmy - that may be true   I was thinking more about this - even I can see that something has changed in the last few months (I'm not talking about results...I'm talking about something in me).  Just a small example is that yesterday after work I went out for a 9-miler.  When I came back my wife asked me how the run went and I said "Great - it was good to get out!".  In previous times, I would never have said that and saw running as something I did with the main aim of trying to keep a bit of weight off.  For my wife to hear me saying that I am actually enjoying the running must be something of a shock to her!

To be honest, I think my wife is proud of me.  I'm usually quite self-deprecating and don't tend to take this type of "praise" easily, even from her.  From her point of view she has seen a fairly drastic change in the last 6 months or so, whereas from my viewpoint it's been fairly gradual.  I do acknowledge though that even if my time spent running is quite short (maybe 6-8 hours per week) I am thinking about it a lot, which is another big difference that has occurred over these last few months.

It helps for me that we're able to talk about it though - my mates aren't runners, and they can't see the attraction.  Although not really a runner herself, she has run a few halfs and she regularly attends the gym etc.

13/03/2013 at 17:16
"Fuck, I must be mad" exactly summed up how it felt when I pressed the submit button for my first ultra (and for my first half, and for my first 10k, for that matter). That feeling of being at the top of the rollercoaster and - blimey - it's a terribly long way down.

I know some don't like it, but I haven't a better way of summing up that "Weeeeeeee" feeling of doing something exciting/scary/limit-stretching.
seren nos    pirate
13/03/2013 at 17:31

WiB.whenever i see a title starting like that i always have a visions of Rick from  the young ones in my head

13/03/2013 at 21:59

WIB when somebody can convincingly summarise sanity then just maybe there may be somebody qualified to judge madness but as things stand now nobody is in a position to judge another.

 

A quote from one of my favorite books ONE FLEW OVER THE CUCKOO NEST :-

“If you don't watch it people will force you one way or the other, into doing what they think you should do, or into just being mule-stubborn and doing the opposite out of spite.” 
??? Ken KeseyOne Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest

 

I always say if it feels right do it and stuff what others think, as long as nobdy get`s hurt then fine

 

 

Edited: 13/03/2013 at 22:02
14/03/2013 at 10:52

The only time insanity raises its ugly head is when I am injured, then I turn into the slipper wearing Geraldine talking aforementioned person.

14/03/2013 at 12:27

I have some regard for Dean Karnazes view that modern society has developed to prize and provide comfort and convenience whilst the human body and mind require much the opposite, overburden, to strengthen and develop.

Ultra runners as a group are, well certainly nearly all I have met so far , friendly, social and organised; there is no small amount of logistical planning involved in designing and sticking to a training plan, turning up on race day properly equipped and on-time, as such I certainly do not view our group as mad or crazy.

As a group though we are eschewing modern societies pursuit of comfort and replacing it with long hard training and racing hours, add in a few external factors which we seem to like to seek out heat, cold, wind, rain, mud, hills, rocks and it is perhaps not too much of a stretch to suggest we represent a counter culture.

As with most counter cultures we have our own uniform cap, buff, Garmin, pack, calf guards, compression socks and more.  We have our own diet including but by no means limited to bananas, malt loaf, flapjack, Gu’s and Shot Bloks. Of course no counter culture is complete without its own lexicon we will do almost anything to avoid a ‘bonk’, nothing engenders despair more quickly or thoroughly than a ‘DNF’, all too often life gets in the way and we ‘DNS’, we take huge pride in ‘trashing’ various bits of ourselves, we love to ‘buckle’, at least one gender hates to be ‘chicked’ and we speak disparagingly of ‘douche grade’.

Here’s where I have a confession to make as a member of this counter culture I wear the uniform proudly, speak the lingo earnestly, eat the food plentifully and put in the training and racing miles happily, I seek out external complicating factors hills, mud, cold and heat however in juxtaposition to what appears to be the founding principle of our counter culture the desire to eschew comfort in favour of discomfort I am constantly in search of anything that will make those miles less painful shoes, socks, shorts, gels, bars, calf guards, thigh guards, rock tape, body glide, arm warmers, buffs, hats, packs, belts, nip guards the list of purchases is almost endless.

So what am I to conclude am I just a poor citizen of the ultra-community who needs to have a jolly good talk with himself and man up, head out Anton like into the hills wearing nothing but Ron Hills, cast off marathon shorts from 1970, sustaining myself Killian like on roots and sips from streams or am I after all the thought and rhetoric just a different shade of normal?

 

Pudge    pirate
14/03/2013 at 13:22

Alistair - I read your post three times, because it was such a pleasure to read.  It also rang true with the way I see things and how, I think, others see me.

 

14/03/2013 at 18:17

Nice words Alistair agree

14/03/2013 at 18:34
I know a guy called Gerald
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14/03/2013 at 18:53

What is normal ? how is normal defined?, is there any such thing as normal ?

14/03/2013 at 21:23

I suspect that a lot of the people who think we are mad, are going to look back on their lives when they are old, and wish they had attempted something of the sort while they still could. 

14/03/2013 at 22:23
Ben Davies 15 wrote (see)

I suspect that a lot of the people who think we are mad, are going to look back on their lives when they are old, and wish they had attempted something of the sort while they still could. 

exactly so Ben, i want to be able to say i did something different, not bonkers or crazy but different .

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