Instead of throwing your toys out of your pram Dizzy why don't you actually listen to what I said, the question you've asked is one that crops up here on a weekly basis from posters like you, who've ever been on the forum before but join simply to ask advice from people they don't know. This has been asked and answered dozens of time here, members have typed the answer repeatedly giving up their time and effort for people who can't do the most basic of searches to find what you're looking for.
The wannabe thread is a little unwieldy but contains everything you need to know, as I said look and if you have any specific questions then by all means ask them