Email notification, mail to members and member validation emails are all borked. It looks like mails are coming through in batches. For example, last night I had a batch of 8 thread reply mails arrive at my mail server at 22:06, but they were sent at times from 20:38 to 21:53. Looking at the following extract from a typical mail header:
Received: from [217.169.41.152] (helo=mail2.magicalia.com)
by exim11.blueyonder.co.uk with esmtp (Exim 4.68)
(envelope-from <forum@runnersworld.co.uk>)
id 1Jo002-0006pq-5E
for xxxxxxxxxxxxx; Mon, 21 Apr 2008 18:40:18 +0100
Received: from mail pickup service by mail2.magicalia.com with Microsoft SMTPSVC;
Mon, 21 Apr 2008 15:20:49 +0100
From: <forum@runnersworld.co.uk>
That's a delay of over three hours. 
I know that it's not the blueyonder servers that are causing the problem, as I changed my email address in my forum profile to point to my own mail server. Similar delays are seen. Indeed, it took over three hours for the validation email to arrive. I note from my mail logs that when you enter a new email address the domain is checked by the forum software by doing an SMTP connect to the destination mail host. This is done on the fly, so there's no question that the mail server can be reached.
Please could someone look into this?