I am out of here because no matter what I say, in the eyes of some, I'll be "bad" -even through stuff "I don't say" I get condemned. I have just stopped smoking and do not with to jeopardise that, I will do well on my runs. I may come back but you will not know who as and when,
But the name Hoose-Goer will go and is associated with bad stuff by some of you lot. Stu as a person, a human being, a counsellor and actually very caring and warm person has been lost through hoose(if you get me)
If I carry on as hoose I will get more flack, probably get down and give up my running. I cannot do right for wrong in the eyes of some, sadly.
I feel very hurt at having to do this. I will speak to you again but not as hoose and at a time of my chosing.
to those who have actually been genuinely supportive -thanks so much and good luck
for those who have not, good luck
I will find it hard to resist answering here but I will try not to.
I an still fine -though find myself up early. Am a little upset that summat I wrote could be so misunderstood -spose various agendas were at work.
I have mansged to still be an happy non-smoker in spite of this -which I could not have done. I was upset enough to consider action against the odd one but it was so ridiculous. Some views don't get heard properly and even then there's misinterpretation(from some surprising quarters -which had upset me)
Hipps -please actually read my original post on that thread - I am guilty of "sloppiness" only -no more no less BECAUSE -maybe my head was elsewhere. Funny enough most people outside a few can see that-funy that.
Bluroom - please get it clear -I have some reservation but nothing to do with the ridiculous claims made on that thread. I have also said to thers that the blueroom is very useful (not so long ago) and on that first reply aid it was a good thread. I know you have helped eachother and thats great.
The reservations I have spoke about, to be open and honest(good for a counsellor to do that btw) is
1/that at times it seems "to me" (ownership)cliquey and exclusive and
2/I worry when two or three peops when very low -may feed off and drag eachother down.
that is absolutely it!!
tyou lot have my support and "my" reservations are there.
like I said above -keep up the good supportive work you do . I cn understand the sensitivities here.