(((Snaily))) as others have said, you took your time to come to a decision; you gave Mr S the time to meet you half way; and making the decision is probably the hardest part of it all
As Yums said, after 20 years you need to come to some financial agreement but living on your own will not be as difficult as you imagine I'm quite sure of that...........and freedom doesn't mean loneliness if you have friends - in effect you've already been living your life for yourself for a while now...........the difference will be the lack of the brooding presence in the corner.........
Meldy - glad the GPO seems to be on the road to recovery.......although the local wildlife and probably the local dogs probably won't be
DL - as you say (no offence intended as you well know ) they probably couldn't have found a more "difficult" household for a devout Muslim lad to stay in, even temporarily
I am thinking of stepping back from my RGT commitments
Up until recently I've enjoyed it but basically I was part of the 2 main people running it and the other one is the one who behaved badly last week and has been behaving weirdly for months.
Also she has some madcap ideas for fundraising but she is the world's worst organiser (when we organised a kids triathlon some years ago you may remember I ended up doing most of it) and I suspect at least one of them is also angled at getting some sort of paid employment for her and another volunteer to the point where they haven't actually thought out what is required.......complicated
I'm also the only one in the main group who works (I think one lady does a few hours here and there but the rest are retired or unemployed) so the time commitment is more difficult for me
Oh well - best get on - another half an hour's work from home then bus into work for the rest of the day
Morning all! What a beautiful morning out there - crisp autumn sunshine, just wished I could be out there instead of at my desk! Hopefully there'll be a few rays later on when I run home. Planning a steady 3+ today just to keep ticking over until the 10k on Saturday.
As a newbie M..eldy who is GPO? Cystitis isn't nice.
Softie Southerner indeed Pods - I'll have to take that on the chin as a newbie!