Maybe do the good old fashioned thing and do a list of pro's and con's CM see if that helps, perhaps for each scenario? I suppose from the perspective I think N sounds like a helpful and kind person so that is good, but perhaps when you total it up against the con's then they will outweigh him being nice. Hope that's not a useless suggestion!!
CC - so rubbish that he is in denial, thinking of you lots. Try and eat, it will help your brain construct better arguments! xx
CM - hope you are okay too.
Seems to be a week of not great news, my brothers friend's baby was born this week but her heart stopped during labour so they have had an awful time as she was transferred to Bristol and has been kept under a cooling process to stop her brain swelling and causing more damage. It sounds like they have no idea what the eventual outcome will be if she survives the first few days. So very sad as they had tried for ages and were obviously very excited about it. Hoping in every way that she will be ok.
Also one of my old rowing coaches had an aneurysm and died and the service is today. So crap, he was only 50.
Counting my blessings and hugging my kids here more than normal.
Hah, is that a bit like Jeremy Clarkson saying he was stressed because there was a possibility he had cancer which is why he punched someone!!!
I really didn't like my last pregnancy and the thought of massive boobs, heartburn, constipation and my fanny being turned inside out really does not appeal anymore! Love my three but they make me feel so knackered some days too!!
Right, 10k is 10th May so am going to train like a demon for this week then do a normal week then a light week? How does that sound?!
Thanks for the tips - will ask my friend to be on standby, am hoping it will be just a brief consult and then possibly a mammogram if they decide its necessary. Catch 22 as I don't want to stimulate my nipples to see if I am still lactating and still have weird discharge as that will only encourage the milk!!
Am doing the Hereford St Michael's Hospice 10k on the 10th May - not going my fastest but I suppose it will be a post children pb at any rate. There is also a Gloucester 10k before the summer hols so might aim to do that as well.
The Builth one sounds good Camlo but think we will be having a weekend at home as hubby is away for most of the previous 2 weekends in USA.
Urgh to drunken grooms though! Embarrassing!
CC - glad you have other places to vent!! Wah to nits, Martha had them again last half term, I use Hedrin at the start and a week later with repeated combings in between and after!!
Vixo - is the change related to your cycle, I'm finding I run better (faster) mid month which seems to be a trend - am tracking my periods using an app called Clue which is v useful. Also confirmed that cycle 1 was 24 days, then 28, 29 and last month was 32 days - grrrr!! Was starting to panic last month!