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Biking and swimming Raf - are you not resting?

Oh Sandi - sorry to hear that.  Citalopram is crap to start with but it does get better after 2 to 4 weeks. Let us know how you get on. 

Hard lines about the job Bear. Fingers crossed it goes your way soon.  And great news on how well the improv is going. I'm very impressed.

I'm having my ups and downs, down at the minute cos I ran out of tablets on Saturday and only managed to pick up a prescription today. Felt quite tearful today and went to bed when I got home from work. Just woke up now, feeling a bit better but sort of "heady". I wonder if the tablets are kicking in again?

I've got 2 job interviews on Thursday! one at 11am and another at 3 pm, 12 miles apart so I'm going to be busy.  Work is pretty bad right now. They have said they will redeploy me only if I drop my tribunal claim. Thats a big fat NO. 

Solb - you are sounding pretty good. Well done and hope the relationship works for you.

Waves to everyone else, I'm meant to be meeting Mr Soup at Pizza Express so have to try and get myself together enough to head out. 

We have separate spending money finances. Bills etc are joint but we have separate spending money accounts. If we go out for a meal one or the other will pay or we might occasionally go halves depending on circumstances. But we don't keep a tally or anything. I like to know that I can spend money on me without feeling I have to justify anything and the same for him. It works for us. 

I took a tenner out of my husband's wallet once. I was skint. But I told him at the time and I knew he wouldn't mind. The worrying thing is to deny it. Thats what's dishonest in my mind.