Lindi and I met on this forum and have raced IM together a number of times , more recently kayaking and climbing and MTBing with the kids and the rest of our lives have rather taken over , still next weekend will be our second mara together this year.
She kicks my arse in most disciplines , other than swim , run under 10 miles. The only advantage of being totally outclassed by your other half is that it gives one a better sense of humility..