Karen, surely your religion teaches you forgivesness? Yet, you are so angered by this betrayal that you are venting this frustration on a public forum.
Three Hail Mary's and one Our Father if you please!
Simply put, we are all just guests on this forum. Nobody should believe they have the right to force control, make demands and 'grade' forumites posts. I sometimes feel that there is a case of the tail wagging the dog here.