Have you tried doing some strengthening exercises to build up your joints? These are very helpful as they tend to help guard against niggly injuries. You could also try some pilates to build up your core.
I also notice your outlook seems to be very negative - you should maybe work on that a bit too, try to be more positive and maybe, without being rude, man up a bit?
Not sure really, I haven't given it that much thought. I'm not religious, so don't have a faith to fall back on or believe in. Not sure if I'm scared or not really and the only thing I'd like to hope is that it's quick and not painful.
Nope - once a cheater always a cheater, so if OH did have an affair I'd be forced to kick him out along with his mountain of goretex, all slashed of course, and I'd have to break or sell his (beloved) bike!
There's nothing like a woman scorned..................
Alternatively, you could just front up to him and ask him outright what his problem is. Bullies hate being confronted, especially in front of other people. Maybe take the track with him that others have mentioned, (i.e. are you struggling with workload, do I need to ask for some help for you to get my stuff done etc etc) I'm sure being shown up publicly like this would assist with his motivation.
If that fails, a sharp jab to the ribs..........?!!?!? (Joking!!)