Posted: 01/10/2014 at 12:56
JG, rah to neighbours! We had lovely neighbours who have now moved and have rented out their house. We are semi-detached and their house is the one not attached to us (thankfully) but the new neighbours have been challenging with regard to parking. There's a gap between the houses which is wider than the width of a Land Rover but is used for access to ours and their back gates. However, they have been parking their Land Rover in it This means that we can't get our recycling bins out on collection day and anyway, half of the gap is part of our property, not theirs.
We spoke to them a couple of weeks ago and politely asked them not to park there, given that it restricts our access and also there's a drain cover there which probably isn't strong enough to support the weight of their vehicle on an ongoing basis (not sure the ground underneath is reinforced to take a vehicle as it would be for a driveway either). They made the excuse that they hadn't been able to use their driveway because Thames Water had dug up the pavement in front of their house to access their stopcock (this was true, but their driveway is very wide and was still accessible in our opinion). They were defensive but stopped parking there. A few days went by and an entirely random vehicle we hadn't seen before suddenly appeared in the gap. GRRRRR!!!! We left a note on it stating clearly that the area was not to be parked in. So far so good ... So annoying though, hate confrontation!
CM, job sounds absolute hell and I agree with JG that you HAVE to speak to someone. Even if they do nothing you need to state categorically that the situation is ridiculous and the workload is too much for one person to handle. It's such a shame as I know how much it took for you to take this job with the pay cut and everything else factored in. And you have to start being kinder to yourself with regard to the kids' activities, homework and instrument practice. As Lotte said on FB, it's not the end of the world if instrument practice doesn't happen every day and there are days when no reading gets done. It's that way in our house I'm afraid - some evenings there's just not time for reading and an activity. Your kids are both bright and I doubt that not reading a couple of evenings a week is going to make any difference to their performance. And you don't have to compensate for T not doing anything with them. Do what you can when you have them but don't stress it. If something gets missed some weeks, so what? We all do the best we can. It isn't always perfect, but it's the best we can do and is good enough.
Brookie, big well done on your marathon! Looking forward to a proper race report!
Camlo/RF, I'd say take a middle of the road approach to IM training and drop down a level if you need to. My friend followed a 'time poor' schedule (I will see if I can find a link to it) and didn't even manage all those sessions. I think consistency is key - obviously you will miss sessions here and there but as long as you get the majority in you'll be OK.
Welcome Sazzle. No advice here as I never ran with a running buggy but there are plenty of people who will be able to help you.
Pip, good luck on getting a Royal Parks place.
I ran the Pleshey half marathon a couple of weeks ago - really nice half and very low-key but rather 'clubby'. Got a bloody speeding ticket driving there though My first driving offence so hoping they'll give me the option of attending the 'naughty course' rather than points on my licence. I'll still be £100 down though - rah! I didn't get anywhere nea